Father's Day

First off, happy Father's Day everyone!
Now, with that being said, I also want to say that I know this means many things to many people. To some it is a pleasant day to celebrate something great; for others it is a painful day to remember something awful.
Those who are the ones celebrating today, cherish it; really celebrate the father you have. Through the good and bad, be thankful for it all.
Those who are remembering and hurting today, let it happen. If you don't have a father in your life, or a good relationship with your father, let the healing begin to happen. Today can be a step towards a better future. Make the first move to mend the broken relationship with your father. If he isn't in your life, celebrate the men in your life who have influenced you (grandpas, uncles, brothers, cousins, etc.)
So today, while some are celebrating and some are mourning, just remember that your story matters. The pain or the joy you've been dealt by your relationship or lack of a relationship with your father is part of your story, whether you wanted it or not. There are many other people who have similar stories to your own. We can begin to grow and heal if we lean on each other and let other people become part of our stories.
You matter and you aren't alone.